UNEXPECTED LIFE EXPERIENCE

All over the world there are so many people who are extremely rich and very successful in their business life. However, in spite of everything that they have something which come from their past may disturb them so they can feel alone. Can you imagine this situation? Lets think about Nicolas who is the main character in The game. He is so successful and wealthy that he can come by everything that he wants. However, his past is always with him so he is always unhappy. In his 48th birthday, his brother Conrad prepares to him an unforgettable birthday party which will change his life and his perspective of life so I believe that this is a game because of some reasons which make me think like this.
Firstly, as I said before, he is so successful in his business life but in his private life, there are something which make him unhappy and alone. In particularly, he can never forget forget his father death. His father committed suicide on his 48th birthday and now Nicolas is on his 48th birthday,too so his brother wants to change Nicola’s monotonous life and he organizes a game for him to make his life funnier and more meaningful and more active so all of the arrangements are regulated by Conrad so we can conclude from these things that it is a game.
The second point, when he goes to company which is called for ‘Consumer Recreation Services’, they say that it is a profound life experience so its aim is to give them a different and strange life. In addition to it, some testes are made on the Nicolas in the company in order to find out his life, his emotional situation and his subconscious so thanks to these test results, they can organize the game. Also everything is arranged so faultless that there is no problem while playing the game so we can find out from these things that it is a game, not real.
The third point, there are some strange events in the film.For example, while he is watching the news on TV, speaker on TV starts to communicate with him via television. If we believe that it is not a game, is there anyone who can explain this situation? If it is real, we should admit that a person and another person who is in TV can communicate with each other. It is ridiculous, isn’t it? Also, at the end of the film, Nicolas shots his brother by mistake but Conrad doesn’t die because this is the part of the game, too so we can understand from the these samples that it is a game, not real. And the last and the most important thing, Conrad confesses that this is a game and with this confession, we completely understand that there is a no doubt about it. Some people argue may argue that this is not a game. On the contrary to it, they believe that it is a real thing. However, they should find out that his every action and every incidents that he comes across are the part of the game and all of these things are planned by Conrad. For example, they guess Nicola’s suicide after he shots his brother and if this action isn’t planned and isn’t guessed, Nicolas certainly dies but they can save his life because this is the part of the game, too so we can conclude these findings, it is a game.
In conclusion, our past is part of our life. Maybe, we can’t espace our from it but if we depend on our past, it may harm us. Also, we should know value of our life and we should keep our eyes open because we can’t bring back moments that we lived. Also, maybe we can have everything that we want such as lots of money, houses, cars and a perfect career. If we always think about the past and if we can’t catch on the moments and finally if we don’t expect any positive things from our future, we can’t take pleasure from the things that we have so don’t think about the past, don’t worry about the future, live the moment…

PERFECT HUSBAND

Relationship between women and men has been argued for years.It is a difficult subject,isn’t it?Both of them would like to have perfect couples.I am a woman and I am aware of my responsibilities.In addition,as a woman,I want a perfect husband who knows his responsibilities as much as me.Well,how should be an ideal husband ?I will explain ‘my perfect husband’ clearly.
Firstly, I want a husband who will certainly remain loyal to me.He must love me so much that he can not see any woman who tries to attrack his attention.Needless to say, men are not aware of the beautiful women around them because they are so faithful to their spouses.I know that he will never interested in them but he must be careful against beautiful and attractive women who may be dangerous.Also, my husband must think that the most beautiful woman in the world is my wife and ,of course, he must be romantic.In addition to them,the most important thing that he will not forget our special days such as my birthday,our marriage anniversy,Valentina Day and something like that.Of course,he must give some special gifts with my favourite flowers.Also, I want a husband who makes me surprised. For example,he can do a special holiday plan for us in order to stay alone with me.Then,I want a husband who gives me so much importance that I can feel special and important.
The second point,I want a husband who respect me and ,in particularly,my job.For example,if I want to build a career,he must support and help me.If I have to come to home from work late,he must look after our children.Of course,men like doing houseworks.However,I don’t expect that he will do everything because life is equal but he can cook meal and clean our home if I have to work late or if I don’t feel good and I am completely sure that he will not complain while doing them.Also,because my job is so hard and serious,my husband must take care of our children when they are sick.
The third point,I want o husband who will respect my social life.After a tiring week,when I go to sport center in order to get rid of my stress and be relax,he will stay at home and take care of our children.Also, he must know that I sometimes need to go out alone.For example, when I go out with my friends, he can watch his important football match with his friends in our home.Of course,he will let me go out without him because men never look another woman ,in other word,their eyes can’t see any woman even if they are so beautiful and attractive so he will not feel uncomfortable when I go out with my friends. In addition,I want a husband who can decide spontaneously.For example,if I go to cinema with him,he immediately accept my offer even if there is a really important football match in TV.
The last point, I want a husband who likes listening to me whatever I say.He mustn’t complain while I’m speaking even if my subjects are simple and small things.And,of course,he will never get bored me.Also.my husband must like shopping with me so much.He must be patient and full of love towards me and I want a husband who doesn’t give importance money so I can buy eveything that I want.
In conlusion,both of the gender want to have perfect mates.As a woman,of course, I want to have a husband like that.Well,is there anybody who doesn’t want to have perfect husband?